Do you believe in “True Love”? Yes, I think most of us do
not believe in true love.
Do you want to receive “True Love”? Yes, I think all of us
want to receive the true love from other people. Receive true love from your
husband, family members, boss, colleagues, strangers, and so on.
How to get really true love from them? There is only one way
to achieve it. It is that you take full responsibility (100) for the
relationship first, expecting nothing (0) in return. If you can do things by
this way, you will get the true love and respect from others.
I think some of us will disagree with my point. You can
provide me a lot of stories to prove that this principle is not correct. I
believe in that your stories are true. I also can tell you a true story came from
my own life.
It was happened when I was in Shanghai .
One day I was driving to take my daughter back home. When I was driving through
a junction, a car hit the left side of my car.
It was not a serious accident. At that time it was late for me to go to kindergarten. The driver realized that it was his fault and
he apologized to me with polite attitude. So I told him that I have to go to kindergarten
right now and I can be back in 10 minutes. I also gave him my contact
information. But when I was back, there were no one there. The next day, I got
a call from police and I was told that I escaped from the accident and I should
be charged to take the full responsibility for this accident.
The key point is that when you take the full responsibility,
do remember to protect yourself. We can expect nothing but we can not be hurt. Although
I believe that all the people in the world are honest, some people are really,
really bad. They will take the advantage of our 100% responsibility to cheat or
hurt us.
